Settling Down Not Shutting Down
Hanging out at the beach where I am most contented.
One of my friends and her husband have decided to downsize and settle down in their later years–which are upon them. They’re moving to a retirement living facility where meals and cleaning and entertainment will be provided. There is a lot to do to prepare for this next big step in their lives. It involves letting go of some fifty years of possessions and collections and a few treasures too. I remember how that was for my sister. A huge relief, especially since she was ill and the special care she received was essential. I’ve thought about such a change for myself but I’m not quite ready. I feel certain I’ll know when and if it is time.
Meanwhile, I’m starting to let go of some of the stuff I no longer need or care about–checking closet by closet, shelf by shelf, and object by object. In some ways it’s kind of fun. I get to think about when such things came into my life and enjoy the memory attached to them. I also notice a tear or two but all of it is okay. It’s part of life–the happy, the sad, and the in between.
Then my mind turns to the chapter after that–preparing for whatever God has for me when I finish my journey here. That may sound a little maudlin, but I don’t see it that way. I see it as an adventure the Lord has planned.
This lovely devotion greeted me this morning and fit my thoughts perfectly:
“Contentment is a feeling that envelops you when you’re truly thankful for what you have and are no longer seeking to acquire more.” (from The Spirit of Ireland)
Dear Karen, I was thinking of you the other day with great fondness. Since both my mom and my mother-in-law were in an assisted living setting, I’ve often thought I think I’d enjoy having everything taken care of–and go to bingo too! I love your attitude of seeking the Lord for your future. And your ultimate future of perfection. I’ll see you there eventually! Love you.
Kathy, what a truly lovely and loving message. Thank you.
I just love this quote about contentment. It perfectly compliments your story. As a believer, I also eagerly anticipate what God has planned for me- although I’m way behind you when it comes to cleaning out my closets!!!
I love your humor. Thanks for writing.
It really is difficult to ‘LET GO’ OF things we have had and loved for most of our life. I am fortunate that when I became unable to live alone my daughter and son-in-law were actually happy for me to move in with them so here I am. We enjoy each other ~ they also had enjoyed his parents living with them for a while. The grandchildren who were still in school were so happy to be with them. Getting rid of long time processions is another thing altogether!HA! So hard. I have been struggling with this for several years now but my family tells me not to worry as they will take care of the things ~ well I know that is true so I must turn it over to them and enjoy the rest if my days on earth and enjoy what I will find in my final home, I am sure I will be surprised and very happy! Thanks Karen~a lot to think about and be thankful for the many years I have had to enjoy what I have, Margaret
Thanks, Margaret. You always have so much wisdom to offer from your long and happy life.
This is so beautiful Mom. I love thinking of you remembering fondly.
I love you, Julie