Don’t Worry! Crack a Smile!
“If they don’t allow laughter in heaven, then I don’t want to go there.” Martin Luther made no bones about it. He enjoyed a good laugh.
American theologian Reinhold Niebuhr went so far as to say, “Humor is a prelude to faith and laughter is the beginning of prayer.”
When the elders of Charles Spurgeon’s church asked him to tone down his humor in the pulpit, the famous minister was quick to respond: “Gentlemen, if you only knew how much I held back!”
It seems clear that without a smile, a chuckle, and some good belly laughs, life would be pretty difficult. Even the great preachers and writers of the past knew this. We all need to look up and out more often or we’d drown in sorrow with all the sadness and evil around us in the world today.
Liz Curtis Higgs, Patsy Clairemont, and Dennis Swanburg are just a few of the well-known Christian public speakers today who can turn a phrase, tell a story on themselves, or twist a detail, resulting in a roomful of people laughing till their eyes tear up.
People will come from all over the world to hear them speak because they know how to lace hope and help with a large dose of humor. I return from such engagements feeling uplifted, inspired, and encouraged. Life seems just a little easier after I’ve laughed my socks off! Maybe this has been your experience too.
It’s a rare person who couldn’t benefit from more light and laughter in life. Here are six ways to live on the sunny side of the street.
- Share a funny or embarrassing moment with someone you know and enjoy laughing together. My friend Melissa called to tell me she sprayed her hair with furniture polish. “It fell flat but had a nice shine!” she said.
- Laugh at yourself even when you feel like crying or hiding under the covers. I thought I’d misplaced my cell phone only to discover I was using it right then to speak with my neighbor. Oh my!
- Pick out a funny film and watch it with a friend or family member. What About Bob? starring Bill Murray is one of my all-time silly favorites and every year during the holidays I have to see Elf with Will Ferrell at least once.
- Cheer up sick friends with a book of humorous stories or jokes. Help them discover that as Will Rogers said, “Laughter is the best medicine.”
- Find humor even in serious situations. A woman whose hair was growing in after chemo treatments said her husband Dan helped her laugh everyday. “We had a short-haired dog at the time because Dan detested dog hair all over the furniture. When my hair started coming in, he clapped me on the back and said, ‘Great. Now I have a short-haired wife too!’ It did help me keep things in perspective. In fact, I liked my new look so well, I never let my hair grow long again.”
- Make a list of bible verses that encourage laughter and tack them up on your mirror or bulletin board to review each day. Here are a few from the new NIV.
“Our mouths were filled with laughter, our tongues with songs of joy” (Ps. 126:2).
“A cheerful heart is good medicine . . .” (Prov. 17:22).
“Blessed are you who weep now, for you will laugh” (Luke 6:21)
Barbara Gordon, former editor at Harvest House Publishers edited many humorous books during her career, mine among them. Here’s what she has to say about humor and the Christian life. “Jesus was a man of joy! I picture Him laughing and smiling, especially with kids. Humorous books that highlight our wonder—and weaknesses—in living for Him remind me that laughter is a gift, and often the best way to connect with people.”
Loved this, Karen–thanks! I could relate to your friend, since recently I almost brushed my teeth with my back rub salve. So thankful I caught myself just in time! 🙂
And now I know of two movies I need to watch, so thanks for that too. I’m familiar with both, but somehow I missed seeing them.
That photo of you is so adorable. I love your beautiful smile! Hugs to you!
Thanks, Judy. Great to hear from you. I remember your beautiful smile and it warms my heart.
I love this Karen. I wanted to keep reading more stories!! The photo of you peeking around that post is darling too. Thank you for making me laugh and for all of the times we’ve giggled together! It means more to me than you know🙏
Thanks, Heidi. I can always count on you to smile and enjoy a good giggle. Life is short. Let’s laugh more and cry less, right?
Karen, This was a good read. A short glimpse leaving me wanting MORE!
Thanks, Ethel. I enjoyed hearing from you.
Hooray for laughter! Thanks Karen for this amazing post! Your photo is simply beautiful and your smile infectious. Bless you. Let’s all keep smiling and laughing every day as we know that is the best medicine.
I totally agree. The best medicine is laughter–and you know that as a retired nurse!!
Laughter is good medicine, indeed! It’s kept me out a straight-jacket for many years!
Hugs, Glenda
I’m laughing as I read your comment, Glenda. Indeed I agree with you after all you’ve been through.
I always enjoy your posts and wish I could see you again in person.
I would love to see you in person too, Janet. We should plan a get-together later this year.
Love it!! I often send funny emails and remind my friends that according to the Bible “laughter is the best medicine” glad you quoted it above.
I also like to remind myself that a smile improves my face value !
You look adorable in the photo above!
Blessing with love and a smile! Margaret
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Thanks, Margaret. Smiling and laughter and the grace of God keep me going and I can see that’s true for you too.
I like the comment I heard once. “If you see someone without a smile…give them one of yours.” Amazing what a smile can do . Thanks for yours Karen.
And thanks for your smile too, Etta Mae. I hope all is well in your corner.